In December, it will be 2 years since my father died of esophageal cancer. I miss him dearly. I often look over at his memorial picture during the day as I work, and even say little comments to him sometimes. I find, however, that the strongest memories come back when I hear one of his favorite songs.
Music was always a part of my dad’s life, especially when he was younger. I remember how he would come home with a new 45 record or album on Friday evening after a long week’s work. He’d change his clothes, and go to the basement where our “component set” was (no CDs back then!), and play the song over and over. I could hear the song playing over and over and over again. Of course, by the end of the evening I would know all of the words!
Now, as I go about my life, I’ll hear a song that he used to play, and it will stop me dead in my tracks, and bring back such powerful, and wonderful memories of my dad and my childhood. The lyrics come back to me, and I sing out loud. I feel my father’s presence again.
Music can invoke powerful memories of your loved ones. If your loved one had a favorite song, hymn, or genre of music, take a moment and listen to it. You can find almost any song on the internet these days. Also consider using these songs in funerals or memorial services.
